Friday, August 21, 2009
Talkers and Listeners
There are those who talk and those who listen. I encounter people all the time who just talk, talk, talk and never stop to listen to a word you have to say. The world revolves around them. To the talkers you are just a servant whose main function is to politely withstand their barrage of verbal punishment without as so much as uttering one phrase. Interestingly enough, these people usually are the privaleged in some way or another. They are the silver-spoon fed trustafarians, the politicians and the people who think they are just that little bit better than everyone else. I find them disgusting, irritating and actually feel wronged by them. Have you ever sat there for an hour while that person just talks your ear off and you feel like crawling away and hiding? Then you know first hand what I'm talking about. Some of the more savy talkers actually realize they are irritating you but they care not for they believe you were born to listen to their drizzel. At the end of the day don't expect anything from this person. The talker is self serving and totally devoid of normal capicity for emotion. The talker lacks common sense and empathy for others. The talker will screw you in a business deal without the blink of an eye so watch out!
What frustrates me is the talker seems more often than not to be in a postion of power. Why is that? My observation would be that the listener allows this behavior to continue unchecked. With myself I find that I don't want to be rude and say ,"Excuse me but you are annoying the hell out of me by talking and not listening to a word I have to say." So I am condoning the talkers behavior by my lack of guts to tell them off. If you are a talker reading this I say shut the hell up and try listening to others. If you are a listener I say don't be afraid to tell someone, "Shut your mouth and try listening for a change!" You might be giving the talker the best advice they could possibly ever get. They might at first hate you but who cares when you know for a fact that when they enter a room everyone literally runs in the opposite direction. I am going to put to this idea to the test and post another blog on the results later.
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hey mat, have way thru reading it, wanted to interupt yuo :D to utter, oh im j/k I say what you say all day(and night, i dont sleep) you r just smarter that big word thing. welcome to hell, anyways i'll finsh reading or listening 2 u . great mind u got :D
ReplyDeletecool, thats funny man i i just finished, and lol cus , when i came here the first time, and returned to read on, the next line i read was you saying , just the hell but then i went back listen, i didnt want to be rude:D oh shit, you said sumthing else but i forget shit:( great to have you here either way, oh hell just read the thread some are so full of assweeds
ReplyDeleteI'd say the worst is a contensious, booring talker. People who try to talk over others(namely me) drive me crazy too!
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Ever notice that those same talk-talk talkers seem to be the ones who are compelled to embellish the hell out of their stories too? I mean really, do they think, really think, that the rest of us believe that whatever happens to them is that much more interesting? Not only that, they are typically people who know everything, about everything, so regardless of what you have to say, they already know it. That is why they talk over you, really you have nothing to add that they don't already know. :) There is one in every crowd.
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if there were only more that felt that way we d be in good shape, sometimes Im one myself but I always try to stop myself and listen to others, to me sometimes u learn alot if u just stop and open ur ears to people, thanks mat that blog helps me to keep my self in check.
ReplyDeleteI can't stand someone who always wants to talk about themselves and think they know everything I work with someone like that. http://saraseigfriedphotos.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteI have teachers like that :(
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good post, i agree with about 90% of it. i think we all know people on both sides and it is funny when you think of those people and read the article.
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LMAO, i am guilty of both well put.
ReplyDeletealso have a new post. stop by and laff
hi mate ive got a 1 year old who wont stop talking , do you think iv got somthing to worry about lol
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